My husband is gay and likes to wear my underwear
The following conversation took place on Saturday afternoon. I had agreed to meet (all names and locations changed to protect the individuals involved) Lisa at a Cafe Nero in the high street.
Lisa and I had been speaking for several weeks over Skype. She had arrived home early to find her husband of 10 years wearing a corset, matching thong, stockings, heels and make up. Her husband Billy had styled his hair and had it pulled back in a low ponytail. He was prancing around in his heels with a glass of white wine and flicking through Vanity Fair.
Lisa squealed... She told me that he kicked off his heels and bent down to pick them up her one single memory was his backside bent over at the waist framed by the corsets suspender belts pulling tightly at the top of the stockings and his ass split perfectly in the middle by the black and pink thong.
In that moment Lisa admitted to me that her husband's rear view reminder her of her university girlfriend, Cathy. She continued to describe Cathy and her very brief dalliance with lesbianism, Cathy was tall slender and athletic - she had a pixie cut, and boyish good looks. She added think cute girl next door.
Billy rushed upstairs and changed into his tracksuit and hurried down stairs. For days after that Billy had been terrified to put a foot wrong. He washed, ironed and cooked and all the while Lisa's mind run amok, my husband is gay, my husband is gay was all I could think Lisa confided in me.
Lisa like so many other women discovered my blog and got in touch. We discussed for hours the differences between a cross dresser, a sissy, a shemale and trans. We discussed how her husband whom we had named Rebecca or Becca for short was a different person to Billy and her marriage was still to Billy but she had to share him with Becca.
We discussed the downside of Becca along with the upside. Lisa almost madly began listing negatives without stopping to breath
What if...
1. He might be bi / gay
2. He has lied to me
3. I don't want him to wear my lingerie
4. I married a man not a sissy gurl
5. Does he want to become a women
6. What will people think
7. I am not a lesbian
8. He is too fat, too masculine he will look silly dressed as a gurl
9. Does he want to go out dressed with me
I mean! She blurted out what if I come home to find him on his knees sucking cock
Calm down Lisa, take a breath. He is a long way away from sucking cock. In my expereince sissy husbands need nudging and controlling before they suck anyones cock. Lisa looked at me wide eyed but, she mumbled I don't want him to.
I got stern with Lisa and said look, he dresses, can you change it! NO trust me a sissy is a sissy is a sissy!
What you can do is control the situation or divorce him.
Lisa starts to cry, I don't want a divorce, I love him. Ok look you are going to have to deal with this or hide it. I know some couples who have agreed not to discuss it and have agreed a rota. it works but it is a chore and feels odd. One particular couple who have carried on with him dressing while she is away or out.
The wife leaves early on a Saturday she is at the gym then she meets friends for a coffee and breakfast, then a little shopping and a quick coffee with friends. She then arrives home around 3pm. He is up and showering as she leaves in the morning, he dresses as a maid and cleans their home and changes back to his male clothing before her return. He is not allowed to blur the lines, however she can do so when she chooses.
They have been living like this for over 4 years, in that time he has not penetrated her. She has pegged him and on very few occassions allowed him to dress and serve her a meal, she has also fucked him as a maid twice.
it works for them but, it is not for everyone. There are some benefits.
1. You can be in control
2. You can decide where and when Becca appears
3. You will be able to buy any clothing, handbags and lingerie
4. Imagine being able to lie in bed and have him lick and nibble you all night
5. You can demand a man, you will eventually cuck him
6. Your home will be clean and food cooked
7. You can have a girlfriend and share everything with
8. You can have him rub your tummy during your period and sympathise with you
Do I really need to go on Lisa? It is simple set the ground rules agree what type of girl you want him to be and start living your life.
Do you want a maid?
A lesbian lover
A bitch slave
Do you want a innocent friend, to teach, to share your female skills with and watch your her blossom and learn to please men?
Do you want to take the lead and fuck your housewife?
Do you want a girlfriend someone to go out with play with and tease and fuck men with?
Do you want to turn her into your plaything a shemale something you can abuse
Do you want to whore her out to men - perhpas even one day let her marry a lover
Lisa burst into tears, this is all so overwhelming. Yes dear I know this is all in the future you dont have to deal with this today. Why not tell him to go and dress and serve you a coffee and start to clean your home.
Lisa and I had been speaking for several weeks over Skype. She had arrived home early to find her husband of 10 years wearing a corset, matching thong, stockings, heels and make up. Her husband Billy had styled his hair and had it pulled back in a low ponytail. He was prancing around in his heels with a glass of white wine and flicking through Vanity Fair.
Lisa squealed... She told me that he kicked off his heels and bent down to pick them up her one single memory was his backside bent over at the waist framed by the corsets suspender belts pulling tightly at the top of the stockings and his ass split perfectly in the middle by the black and pink thong.
In that moment Lisa admitted to me that her husband's rear view reminder her of her university girlfriend, Cathy. She continued to describe Cathy and her very brief dalliance with lesbianism, Cathy was tall slender and athletic - she had a pixie cut, and boyish good looks. She added think cute girl next door.
Billy rushed upstairs and changed into his tracksuit and hurried down stairs. For days after that Billy had been terrified to put a foot wrong. He washed, ironed and cooked and all the while Lisa's mind run amok, my husband is gay, my husband is gay was all I could think Lisa confided in me.
Lisa like so many other women discovered my blog and got in touch. We discussed for hours the differences between a cross dresser, a sissy, a shemale and trans. We discussed how her husband whom we had named Rebecca or Becca for short was a different person to Billy and her marriage was still to Billy but she had to share him with Becca.
We discussed the downside of Becca along with the upside. Lisa almost madly began listing negatives without stopping to breath
What if...
1. He might be bi / gay
2. He has lied to me
3. I don't want him to wear my lingerie
4. I married a man not a sissy gurl
5. Does he want to become a women
6. What will people think
7. I am not a lesbian
8. He is too fat, too masculine he will look silly dressed as a gurl
9. Does he want to go out dressed with me
I mean! She blurted out what if I come home to find him on his knees sucking cock
Calm down Lisa, take a breath. He is a long way away from sucking cock. In my expereince sissy husbands need nudging and controlling before they suck anyones cock. Lisa looked at me wide eyed but, she mumbled I don't want him to.
I got stern with Lisa and said look, he dresses, can you change it! NO trust me a sissy is a sissy is a sissy!
What you can do is control the situation or divorce him.
Lisa starts to cry, I don't want a divorce, I love him. Ok look you are going to have to deal with this or hide it. I know some couples who have agreed not to discuss it and have agreed a rota. it works but it is a chore and feels odd. One particular couple who have carried on with him dressing while she is away or out.
The wife leaves early on a Saturday she is at the gym then she meets friends for a coffee and breakfast, then a little shopping and a quick coffee with friends. She then arrives home around 3pm. He is up and showering as she leaves in the morning, he dresses as a maid and cleans their home and changes back to his male clothing before her return. He is not allowed to blur the lines, however she can do so when she chooses.
They have been living like this for over 4 years, in that time he has not penetrated her. She has pegged him and on very few occassions allowed him to dress and serve her a meal, she has also fucked him as a maid twice.
it works for them but, it is not for everyone. There are some benefits.
1. You can be in control
2. You can decide where and when Becca appears
3. You will be able to buy any clothing, handbags and lingerie
4. Imagine being able to lie in bed and have him lick and nibble you all night
5. You can demand a man, you will eventually cuck him
6. Your home will be clean and food cooked
7. You can have a girlfriend and share everything with
8. You can have him rub your tummy during your period and sympathise with you
Do I really need to go on Lisa? It is simple set the ground rules agree what type of girl you want him to be and start living your life.
Do you want a maid?
A lesbian lover
A bitch slave
Do you want a innocent friend, to teach, to share your female skills with and watch your her blossom and learn to please men?
Do you want to take the lead and fuck your housewife?
Do you want a girlfriend someone to go out with play with and tease and fuck men with?
Do you want to turn her into your plaything a shemale something you can abuse
Do you want to whore her out to men - perhpas even one day let her marry a lover
Perhpas take dance classes together and make her watch as you suck off the dance teacher?
Lisa burst into tears, this is all so overwhelming. Yes dear I know this is all in the future you dont have to deal with this today. Why not tell him to go and dress and serve you a coffee and start to clean your home.
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