Wanting to be Femm
Every single day I wade through 100s of emails, all asking for the
same advice, how can I be more female, more girly, more like you, more
like a real women?
The sad truth is you can’t. Sorry sissy gurls, your frame of reference, your expectations are all wrong. What I tell these sissy wannabes is that they have to re-map their ideas of femininity and try to understand the real female mind set.
Unlike men women are put on show from an early age. Look right, act right, move right. I have mentioned this several times on my blog.
A women is much more in tune with her body and how she feels than any man or indeed sissy gurl.
Successful women understand this and rather than fight the norm they simply use it to their advantage. In my late teens and early twenties I simply never had to pay for a drink, or meal. When I felt horny I would allow the guy to have sex with me, it sounds awful but it is very much a transaction, we are all whores and pimps. Flirting is our weapon, lingerie our armour and clothes are our ammunition.
Women have the ability to sexualise everything they do if they choose to do so. From brushing their hair
to walking or
even putting themselves on show - this almost looks like a shop window and the product is saying do you like what you see! Imagine being able to do that with a guy?
Pre qualifying his cock prior to bedding him! Every women who is confident and knows how to carry herself is sexy.
Women understand that they are on show front back and from the side. This brings an intimacy, a bond that women share and also compete bitterly over.
Women are comfortable touching but it is not a sexual thing. It is born out of admiration for eatch other and envy.
Women are complex, men are simple. Sissy gurls are caught in that limbo state of needing to scratch a deep itch, needing to expereince womenhood but their male side just wants to cum. Be honest sissy you have planned a wonderful weekend of dressing everyone is away for the entire weekend. You imagine bathing, then lying in bed dressed, but your silly little man mind just wants to cum and when you do, thats it your mind reverts to male status and you feel humliation, ashamed, you feel weak, silly and ugly and you rip off that beloved lingerie and return to your male side.
This is a mans reaction, women have dealt with humiliation and shame all their lives. They can cope, they can deal with being wanton and allowing someone to penetrate their bodies, to cum inside, to use them and not have to feel ashamed.
How can you do this time and time again and remian sane. How much cum has a women drunk in her lifetime? How objectifying is it? How degrading to act as an object that catches his cum. And yet we do it this weekend I will allow a man to push his cock into my mouth and I will take his cum. As a women I am instructed to accept this.
Nut Sissy gurls want this they want to imagine being these women, to feel these feelings. If you do then you are on the start of the road to understanding womenhood.
Can you let out a moan when he slides out, do you feel empty, do you feel needy? Do you purr and giggle when you feel his cock throb deep inside and then let out a squeal of pleasure as he unloads his seed deep inside, do you bite your lip and feel slutty as his cum slides out and pools in your knickers and then slides down your inner thigh?
Sissy can you wake up and please your man before he leaves for work and feel wonderful, can you please him without needing him to please you?
Women are strong, yet needy. We need intimacy, touch, friendships, we need to share our feelings. Be open to all women, to your sissy online gurlfriends to me. Share your thoughts, be honest, be female.
Then one day sissy you might just feel so perfect as a girl, so adorable, so cute, so femm, so real.
That you find yourself evaluating him, bitting your lower lip, feeling that warm feeling deep inside and wondering wow could I get it all in my mouth, your mind giggles and you flick your hair and move on to the next guy...
The sad truth is you can’t. Sorry sissy gurls, your frame of reference, your expectations are all wrong. What I tell these sissy wannabes is that they have to re-map their ideas of femininity and try to understand the real female mind set.
Unlike men women are put on show from an early age. Look right, act right, move right. I have mentioned this several times on my blog.
A women is much more in tune with her body and how she feels than any man or indeed sissy gurl.
Successful women understand this and rather than fight the norm they simply use it to their advantage. In my late teens and early twenties I simply never had to pay for a drink, or meal. When I felt horny I would allow the guy to have sex with me, it sounds awful but it is very much a transaction, we are all whores and pimps. Flirting is our weapon, lingerie our armour and clothes are our ammunition.
Women have the ability to sexualise everything they do if they choose to do so. From brushing their hair
to walking or
even putting themselves on show - this almost looks like a shop window and the product is saying do you like what you see! Imagine being able to do that with a guy?
Pre qualifying his cock prior to bedding him! Every women who is confident and knows how to carry herself is sexy.
Women understand that they are on show front back and from the side. This brings an intimacy, a bond that women share and also compete bitterly over.
Women are comfortable touching but it is not a sexual thing. It is born out of admiration for eatch other and envy.
Women, tell stories with their bodies, clothing and their behaviour.
Women are complex, men are simple. Sissy gurls are caught in that limbo state of needing to scratch a deep itch, needing to expereince womenhood but their male side just wants to cum. Be honest sissy you have planned a wonderful weekend of dressing everyone is away for the entire weekend. You imagine bathing, then lying in bed dressed, but your silly little man mind just wants to cum and when you do, thats it your mind reverts to male status and you feel humliation, ashamed, you feel weak, silly and ugly and you rip off that beloved lingerie and return to your male side.
This is a mans reaction, women have dealt with humiliation and shame all their lives. They can cope, they can deal with being wanton and allowing someone to penetrate their bodies, to cum inside, to use them and not have to feel ashamed.
How can you do this time and time again and remian sane. How much cum has a women drunk in her lifetime? How objectifying is it? How degrading to act as an object that catches his cum. And yet we do it this weekend I will allow a man to push his cock into my mouth and I will take his cum. As a women I am instructed to accept this.
Nut Sissy gurls want this they want to imagine being these women, to feel these feelings. If you do then you are on the start of the road to understanding womenhood.
Can you let out a moan when he slides out, do you feel empty, do you feel needy? Do you purr and giggle when you feel his cock throb deep inside and then let out a squeal of pleasure as he unloads his seed deep inside, do you bite your lip and feel slutty as his cum slides out and pools in your knickers and then slides down your inner thigh?
Sissy can you wake up and please your man before he leaves for work and feel wonderful, can you please him without needing him to please you?
Women are strong, yet needy. We need intimacy, touch, friendships, we need to share our feelings. Be open to all women, to your sissy online gurlfriends to me. Share your thoughts, be honest, be female.
Then one day sissy you might just feel so perfect as a girl, so adorable, so cute, so femm, so real.
That you find yourself evaluating him, bitting your lower lip, feeling that warm feeling deep inside and wondering wow could I get it all in my mouth, your mind giggles and you flick your hair and move on to the next guy...
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