Silly, fun and girly, why it is important to play like a women

A common mistake made by sissy gurls trying to emulate women is quite simply being 'too much of a woman' Almost as if a sissy is wearing a costume of womenhood. Women like men come in many shapes, sizes and personalities. Women have depth, they have expereinces and have many many layers which can be overwhelming for a sissy gurl to understand. A sissy gurls approach to feminity is almost one dimensional and centers around sex and sexuality. This approach is similar to a mans approach. 

I spent many evenings contemplating this situation and trying to build a framework of understanding to enable me to further develop Nicole but too also understand the sissy gurls I continue to encounter. 

This little experiment is a perfect way for sissy gurls to begin building a deeper and more complete understanding of feminity. What better way to learn than through play. 

Step 1 - get dressed put on your finest most sensual lingerie and outfit, the outfit that makes you feel girly, fun and oh so alive with feelings and feminity.

 If you are lucky enough to have a sissy friend dress with her/him and make sure you leave each other alone. I know you cant help it but try sissy, try to think of something other than yourself or sex. Try a be a woman for a change.

Next add your sissy training collar. Which ever collar you have that makes you feel girly. 

 Step 2 alone or with another sissy gurl friend put on some fun music I would suggest something light girly and very much in the pop genre, then just let go, dance, giggle, play and laugh, be sensual but not sexual, smile and blow kissses.

Bounce, giggle and enjoy your breast forms, be silly

Really enjoy the freedom of letting yourself go, with no concern of anyone or anything.

If you are alone then find a mirror, if you are with another sissy gurl then take it in turns to pose, dance and be as sexy and as sensual and silly as you possibly can. Perform a little strip tease, be silly and laugh make sure you have fun. BUT do not have sex. We are still playing that comes later.

Try to showoff your femm curves, from your breasts to your hips and ass.

 

Begin to make your moves more sensual and feel the feminity and sexual tention in the room, love yourself in the mirror, kiss your reflection, let out a giggle when you see the liptstick on the glass.  

You are a woman, be everything she is.

Pout at yourself or your sissy gurlfriend 

Take it in turns until you collapse onto the sofa, giggling and laughing. Then hold each other, whisper to each other how much you are both real women. Pose for each other.

Step 3 look at these images together and be honest tell each other what you think, how they make you feel. blush, giggle perhaps even cry a little but BE HONEST, share your true inner girl. 

 

Be honest if you are alone say it out loud in your most girly and sensual voice. If you are with another sissy gurl tell him/her how you feel. Listen to your sissy gurlfriend tell you how s/he feels

Pose for your sissy gurlfriend and take a selfie on her/his phone

The your sissy gurlfriend can take a selfie on your phone. Or a little video clip. 

Step 4 imagine the girly fun. Look through these images while you gently play with each other, if alone use your vibrator.

 Describe how horny she must be to rub herself on the corner of her desk, tell each other when you have been that horny, if alone write your story in my comments section. Tell me what made you sooo wet.

Giggle and blush at the intensity of a female orgasm. How much do you want this?

To dress like her 

To be her

To submit like her 

To be sooo femm 

So sub 

So ready to be taken? How much do you want it sissy?

Step 4 play with yourself or your sissy gurlfriend until you/both cum

As you cum, look at this gif and imagine what it is like to feel a fat cock head at your entrance, to feel it pulse and fill you with his cum - tell each other what she must feel like, if alone record this to your phone. Send me your thoughts in the comment section.

Do you feel you are a better sissy now, do you feel you understand how important it is to play, to be silly and how that connects you to feminity and being a girl