Being more female

 

Many gurls have written to me asking for more information about being 'more female'. I am not sure what that really means. My assumptions are that the gurls are trying to find ways to connect to what it means to be a woman. Being a woman is very complex, so many contradictions. I want to explore this in much more detail. If I had to guess, the subject the gurls are really interested in is sex!

The female sexual range is much broader, much more complex. Male sexuality is as complex but for straight men it is relatively liner. Women experience their sexuality in more complexity. While some women need a particular kind of stimulation to achieve orgasm, some women never fully experience orgasms, while others are cable of multiple orgasms. Some women also feel arousal in different ways and in different parts of their body, most men neglect these body parts, not only to find these areas on their lovers but also to understand that this is even a thing! 

Therefore, understanding the female sexual range is difficult for gurls. Comparing male and female experiences is almost pointless. We have to look at female pleasure from a very different perspective.

 

Women need an attentive partners to climax. From conversations with many women it is clear that women who are sleeping with other women climax much more than those who sleep with men. Every single women who has expereinced sex with both men and women, has told me that they find it easy to orgasm with a women. Interistingly of those women who have slept with other women and also sissy gurls they all list sissy gurls as much more attentive then male lovers, the women all stipulated that the sissy gurls were much more compliant and therefore when listing partners who have consistantly given them orgasms the list and percentages is almost unanimous:

1. Woman with another woman - 90% chance of orgasam 

2. Woman with a sissy gurl - 80% chance of orgasm 

3. Woman with a man - 55% chance of orgasm

While the man component of sex with men is penetration, lesbian and sissy gurl sex is much more diverse.