Another request from Jess

July 04, 2022

Another request from Jess

You are an absolute legend Ms Kate!!! I’m completely blown away by your response to my cum question, made even more fabulous by having its own dedicated post. So humbled and thank you for being so amazing!! It made me wonder about what are the 10 most humiliating tasks a gurl CAN or should be made perform? I know it’s very subjective to individuals sissy or gurl, but for instance, I find a strapon blowjob much more humiliating and degrading to perform than sucking on alpha, bull or cis male dick. My rationale for this is having to give head to a strapon, with a true girl knowing the experiences, feelings and having empathy with performing the act (how many times have they been in a comparable situation!) - consideration they give blow jobs as part of their normal life’s and are likely comparing experiences and perhaps replaying previous situations, makes it extra difficult to perform and deeply humiliating. So, in your amazing mind, what tasks are most humiliating for a gurl? Love, Jess xx

Jess humiliation is an artform, for example, Jess darling you may feel that you are special as I published your cum question, which in turn has given you a little excitment, but you are a rather sloppy gurl. Your informal tone and lack of due respect is simply rude and you should be ashmed of yourself. Where is my curtsey?

Now as you have tried to think (a rare thing for a sissy gurl) and suggest an idea I will respond but in future if you are not careful you will find yourself in hot water gurl.

Your suggestion might seem on the surface to be a fact, but in my expereince every single sissy gurl would find the strap on easier, present a gurl a real cock and she will begin to cry. Add in the sissy gurls wife to watch her husband suck cock and I can tell you the sissy gurl will either freeze, and collapse in tears or will break and and become her true slut cum sissy gurl self.

The list below will shock you all and will serve as a lesson to wanna be sissy gurls. I can be a real bitch. I have turned many sissy gurls into blubbering wrecks and broken the minds of many more.

There are only two ways you can change someones behaviour - manipulate or inspire. There are many obvious tricks and tools a wife, girlfriend can use to manipulate her sissy gurl. In my mind the most humiliating and shameful thing a woman can do to her sissy is to inspire the sissy gurls need to humiliate herself for her Mistress.

The list is in no particular order I am just recalling some of the little 'fun' things I have done to Nicole and countless other gurls.

I would insit on Nicole having periods insync with mine. I would insist that she would wear a tampon and would have to ask to borrow one from my drawer each month, if we were out she would have to request one and take it from my purse and place it into hers and then visit the ladies room to insert it. I adored listening to her explanation and defending my decision to the girls. They would ask Nicole why she did it and she would respond, I am thankful to Ms. Kate for allowing me to expereince every aspect of being a woman - over the years she actually belived it and it became a ritual she still does to this day. I remember the first time Nicole did this, when her Mum was visiting I could hear Nicole trying to explain it all and thanking me for it all.

Wearing my used panties. I would often return from a night out with soiled underwear (every real girl knows what I mean, cum has to go somewhere and there is only so much moisture a tiny lace panel can absorb. Nicole would be waiting at the front door with a glass of wine and I would slip off my knickers and hand them to her she would then be asked to sniff them and describe the mixture of my scent and his, as if she was descibing a fine wine.

Keeping a girly diary of your inner most feelings, fantasys and thoughts and at random having to read it out loud to your wife

Visiting a make up counter and asking the girl to help you to select your first make up kit and that you have been told by your wife that you need to buy:
Foundation
Concealer
Bronzer
Eyeliner
Mascara
Neutral Eyeshadow Palette
Brow Pencil
Lipstick
Once completed visit the perfume counter and ask the girl to help you select your perfume. When speaking to the girl at the counter make sure you ask her to share with you scents that are girly, summery and floral. When she asks if this is for your girlfriend or wife, reply with, no its for my femm self. tell her your femm name, giggle and ask her to tell you which of the perfumes she prefers on you.
Changing how your sissy speaks is key to keeping her in gurl mode. When talking to their Mistress or Master, or out in public, in fact a sissy should only use these suggested synonyms for the word good include the following:
Yummy
Pretty
Cute
Sweet
Sexy
Sooo hot
Fabulous

Suggested synonyms for the word bad include the following:
Yucky
Silly
Scary
Sad
Prude
Gross
Horrid

Other important suggestions include using the following:
Yes Sir
No Sir
Yes Madam (or Ma’am)
No Madam (or Ma’am)
May I
Please
Thank you
Excuse me
I am ever so sorry

Give your sissy verbal tests, tell your sissy to descibe a big hard cock. This should also be included in your sissy gurls diary under the section, the perfect cock.

Encourage your sissy to comment on mens cocks, imagine you are out for dinner and you both spot a hunk, tell your sissy to imagine what his cock might be like. This is especially humiliating when the sissy gurl is dressed in male drab.

Write a letter to your family outling your desire to be a sissy gurl, explain to them how much you enjoy cock and how often your wife or girlfriend has pegged your sissy asspussy. Include a number of photos in your fave outfits including lingerie and sleepwear. Address it and put a stamp on it and hand it to your Mistress or Master

Every birthday make a public show of giving your sissy gurl cock gifts from chocolate cock, to dildos and most humiliating of all a cast of your Bulls cock to place on your sissy gurls nightstand.

Gag reflex training - this is messy and humiliating and vital for all sissy gurls - learning to surpress your gag reflex is the only way to learn how to deep throat, this should be applied in tandam with cum training.

Increase the size and speed in which you force the gurl to take a dildo until the sissy stops gagging. If you can add real cocks to the mix all the better.Within a few weeks your sissy will be able to deep throat like a seasoned whore.

Cum training is not just about swallowing, a gurl should chew the cum in her mouth. Let cum dry on your sissy gurls face. She needs to play with it feel it, understand what it does to her clothes. These are all experience real women learn, every real woman has an item of clothing ruined by cum.

What does cold cum taste like, what does cum smell like, does your sissy prefer to swallow warm cum or cold. No matter her choice make her swallow both.

Sissy gurls should enjoy cum, they should relish it and want it. Make sure you have plenty in jars and smear cum on your sissy gurls face her asspussy and all over her breasts.

Ensure she expereinces real cocks cumming on her face and in her hair.

Covering your sissy gurls face with cum and sending her out for a walk can really be a challenge.

My two most fave ways to humiliate gurls is to either petify or compare them. The comparison process is a powerful and humiliating way to de-value your sissy and really dent her self esteem. A simple way to do this is to dress up in similar outfits and compare your sissy gurl to yourself.

Simple passive aggressive statements can really impact a sissy gurl deeply. For example the image above the sissy gurl is adorable, but the wife might wish to say: 'Oh sweetie you are very statuesque, oh silly me, I didnt mean that, I mean big.'

I like to inspect my maids and set them agaisnt each other. It is a simple tactic and one the gurls often fall foul of.

Being disappointed in your sissy progress, highlighting any femm attributes is key.

Petifying your sissy is soooo much fun. You can really humiliate a gurl, introduce your sissy gurl to pet play, ever wanted a pet dog, a cute and friendly bitch or a sensual cat.

The key to pet play is de-huminising your sissy and making sure she is naked, a but plug tail is also a powerful reminder, as are collars and leads.

Many sissy gurls find themselves gravitating towards being a pet, nothing excites me more than a a sissy gurl with stick on breast forms collared and chained pretending to be a female dog or cat.