Making love to your wife as a sissy gurl

So you have taken the brave step and admitted to your wife you like to dress like a girl, you have admitted to her you want her to use you, humiliate you, to peg you and force you to lick up your cum. 

Your wife has come to accept the female you. So lets not waste the opportunity or ruin it with your silly pre-concieved ideas. The first step sissy, is to realise this is not your show!

You should worship your wife for her acceptance, her reluctant willingness to allow you to be the girl inside, is a statement of the love she has for you. So spend the time to understand what your wife needs, how does she behave with her girlfriends, is she girly, is she butch, does she value time alone, or is your wife the type of woman that needs attention? What does she like, dislike etc. 

What we can agree on is that almost all women value intimacy, sharing, relationships and to a lesser or greater extent dressing. 

The first step is to define the rules with your wife. What she is ok with and what she will not do. The lst below is a list I helped to develop for a couple who were just starting their journey. He of-course wanted everything and she just wanted to take things a step at a time. After many teaful sessions, the rules below have worked for this couple and several others. 

As the sissy gurl you should be thankful your wife allows you to explore your femm side. The least you can do is allow her to set the rules. 

Rule 1:
The wife is in charge, even if she is the sub. The wife sets the pace and the boundaries. Remember your your wife may wish to to discuss things, but in the end she makes the decisions. Sissy gurls, crossdressers should not backchat or make ‘suggestions’ unless your wife asks for them. Gurls can ask wives for permission for things and or needs.

Rule 2:
What to call each other, like most sissy gurls and crossdressers you will have a femm name. You will explain why you chose that name and you will accept the name your wife gives you, assuming she wishes to change it. You will refer to your wife in which ever manner she requests. 

Rule 3:
Do not expect your wife to take part in selecting your fem outfits, she may guide your style, she may even buy items for you. As she becomes more and more used to your dressing she may begin to take an active role. You will need to wait for her to make that choice. 

Rule 4:
Dont dress like a whore or a parady of womanhood - and remember to dress to your size and shape, just like real woman do.

Try to be elegant, try to dress as a real woman and not some whorish parody.

If you can pull it off then something fashionable and slinky is ok, if your wife agrees with it then a little role playing can be fun. Some wives love to dress up in a suit, shirt and tie and wear a strap on, with the sissy gurl playing the housewife or maid.

Rule 5:
Stop your femminisation where your wife wants you to stop, some wives are ok with wigs and breastforms others are not. So be as femm as your wife wishes you to be. 

 

Rule 6:
You are lucky to have such an understanding wife, it is vital you agree the rules with her. Can you play alone? What and wear are you allowed to be enfemm? 

 

Rule 7:
You might want your wife to force you to play with a cock or even suck one, but she might not want to do that. Or she might - remember she makes the rules.

 

Rule 8:
Even if you are not dressed do more house work, wash your wives bras, cook more, clean more be a true friend. Listen more and if your wife chooses to be intimate with her feelings and how she feels accept it.

Even if she tells you something she has never shared, something from her past something that makes you feel ashamed, envious or she admits to a lie. Perhaps your wife lied about her sexual partners, how many what kinks 

Perhaps your wife is a whore and loves real hard cock?

Or loves to be spanked? Had a lesbian affair?

Does it really matter? She is allowing you to find yourself. Tell her you love her all parts of her and you might just find she loves all parts of you... even the girly parts. 

So how do you make love to your wife as a sissy gurl? I think you might have worked it out by now... However your wife tells you.