Fashion, lingerie and dressing well

There is a special moment, a moment when the excitment builds as you approach the day your new lingerie will arrive, in fact it is the same for heels, skirts, dresses and makeup. 

Sissy gurls spend hours flicking through magazines, browsing online stores for that perfect bra or corset. And yet they end up looking like a parody of womanhood. I intend to change that, I want sissy gurls to understand fashion and brands and to shop like a real woman might. 

Lets start with some basics - a adorable everyday bra and pantie set from Eberjey. Lingerie that's a joy to slip on in the morning. This 'Beatrix' bralette is made from lace and tulle in a dusty pink shade. It's unpadded for comfort and has adjustable straps so you can get the fit just right.

For a special night out, perhaps its the 3rd date and it time to put out? Nothing comes close to the luxury of La Perla. With its form-fitting silhouette and thong back, La Perla's 'Spell on You' bodysuit works well under tight clothing but would also look chic peeking out beneath a white shirt. It's cut from Leavers lace with underwired, padded cups to give you a subtle lift and adjustable straps, which you can remove for strapless tops or dresses.

A gurl has to eat, so she has to work and this outfit from Miss Selfridge is the perfect work outfit to have all the girls giggling and the guys drooling. Miss Selfridge co-ord military blazer and mini skirt in metallic check, traditional twist perfect for the typing pool or the boardroom. 

Wedding season is upon us and your gurlfriends are going to get married, ever the bridesmaid, never the bride as you roll your eyes at yet another invite. But don't you worry your pretty little head as Zimmermann's wrap dress is perfect. Cut from silk-satin for a fluid drape, this version has a flouncy hem and sash ties to define the waist. Wear yours to your friend wedding with strappy sandals and a small clutch.

Lunch dates can be so difficult to dress for, casual but sexy, without being trashy is not easy. This outfit is perfect centered around the adorable casual, but hot Isabel Marant's 'Caly' mini skirt. Made from light-blue denim that's washed and whiskered for a lived-in look, it has silver-tone hardware and an ultra mini hem. Balance the low-rise waist with a tucked-in T-shirt and bomber jacket, to have your man drooling.

 

You have been invited to a Garden Party at the Palace, what will you wear? This perfect outfit from Erdem is the answer, so stop stressing and get dressing, It's made from silk-voile that swishes in pretty, flower-strewn tiers, including the sleeves, which are slit to accentuate the effect.

Every gurl needs a little black dress, but there as sooo many to choose from. Your gurl that is a statement, so make another with this divine dress from Miss Sohee. The mini dress is decorated with jewel-toned crystals meticulously embroidered by hand - it's a time-consuming process, but one the South Korean designer says is "relaxing, almost meditative." It's made from black crepe for a close fit and has a split neckline. Wear yours with strappy heels and a statement clutch. 

The day has finally arrived, your meeting his parents, what are you going to wear? What says I am going to look after your boy and yet also exudes sensuality. Well have no fear the perfect meet the parents dress has been designed for every gurl by Dolce & Gabbana. This dress has D&G's signature blooms. Flourishing with painterly carnations, this mini dress is made from cotton-poplin and has a corset bodice to balance the pleated skirt. Wear yours with a hint of rosy-pink lipstick for the girl next door look.

Lunch with the gurls is sooo much fun, you want to show off but you don't want the other gurls bitching about you, this outfit is perfect, it says hi I am sexy and just look at my curves without screaming I am a slut, all thanks to the Jacquemus' 'Yauco' bodysuit which creates the illusion of a tucked-in polo without any of the fuss. Made from off-white ribbed-knit, it has a combination of smooth and textured panels and plenty of buttons along the front so you can adjust the neckline and show off your girls (yes I mean your breasts) 

How do you do dinner with the gurls? How do you glam it up, but still stay effortlessly casual? Well the answer is Alix NYC's 'Neve' bodysuit. Cut from butter-soft stretch-vegan leather that closely hugs your figure. It's fitted with underwiring along the neckline and has a jersey thong base. Wear wide legged tailoring to create the illusion of hips and strut your stuff with the gurls.

 

Congratulations gurl, you are married! Now its time for your honeymoon. What to wear? Dont worry Honey Birdette will take care of everything. From the perfect outfit to fly out to Santonrini and take your place in the spotlight with this chic satin set. From wine dining to fine dining, this luxe lounge collection includes a classic bustier, satin suit pants and a matching satin shirt. Accented with detachable straps and gold-plated chains.

A honeymoon is such a complex event for a woman, she wants to look her best, she wants to please her man she wants to have fun and most of all she wants to be desired. 

The perfect honeymoon swimsuit from Honey Birdette in rose gold radiance. Shimmery and flirtatious with knots all over, features new knotted embroidery, shiny satin, and glittering mesh. Covered in a reflective rose gold foil, each piece is detailed with gold-plated rings and knotted rouleau.

 Lingerie plays an important part for any woman's honeymoon. The first night every gurl should consider wearing white and again Honey Birdette has the perfect set. Your man will fall in lust at first sight! Made with an ultra-Parisienne feel, Daisy features Swiss designed embroidery, sheer crystal tulle, and decadent trims. Finished with luxe gold hardware and iridescent crystals, Daisy is the ultimate keepsake collection for everyday bombshells or blushing brides.

 

On your return from honeymoon you will become the lady of the manor. A lady that lunches, rides horses and has steamy encouters with the staff.