Outfit fails

Every day my inbox is filled to the brim with sissy gurls begging for help with their wives, asking me to help explain to these poor women each and every single sissy gurl is married to that their husband is a sissy, faggot cross dressing, pervert!

But once in a while a sissy sends in an email that I find interesting and makes me consider posting. In this particular case, a sweet sissy gurl called Beccy sent through the below email:

Curtsey

Dear Ms Kate,

As a sub sissy gurl, I have always admired strong women, how they walk, talk and dress. I do adore fashion and love flicking through the pages of cosmo dressed as Rebecca, please do call me Beccy, or sissy gurl, or bitch, in fact you can call me whatever you want please Ms. (sooo blushing right now). 

I would love to hear your thoughts on outfit fails Ms Kate, from nip slips to alighting from a car and showing a little too much. (giggle blushing)

I have always wondered what it must be like to have such a thin almost see thru lace triangle to hide your modesty, how exposed, how vunerable and how sensual and exciting it must feel, to have to move in such a way, so you don't give a stranger an eyefull.

Thank you Ms Kate for taking the time to read my email, I would be everso grateful for a response. 

Yours always Beccy 

Curtsey

Well how can I dissapoint such a polite and well mannered gurl? 

Dear Beccy, 

let me tell you all about dressing as a woman and as you put it - outfit fails. Grab a glass of Chardonnay sit back and relax and let me begin sissy. 

To understand outfit fails, we have to understand female fashion, female clothing and women's place in society. Female clothing until recently has been a study of practicality, we have breasts that need support, we menstruate, we have hips etc. As women moved from the kitchen into the boardroom a more empowered and enlightend women emerged, we can see this in the 80's women began to power dress. Fitness and dance became a global trend, vitality and sexuality began to be a women's right.But as always women were used as sexual fantasies for men.

 

Moving quickly through the 90s and 2000 to present day, women have been taking control not only of fashion but also their bodies, making sure they were in charge.

 

 

 

Lingerie brands began to spring up and women enjoyed a freedom that they never imagined before. Girlfriends begun to play practical jokes on each other and the ladette was born a very playfull, silly and intent on expereincing everything and anything and not giving a damn about societal norms.

 

 

Lets get back on track and discuss this idea of outfit fails. As a woman, your choice of outfit is very much determined by your mood and the occassion, are you attending a party, a social event, a wedding or simply out shopping. How you feel and your self image. All three outfits are shopping, day to day outfits and reflect the personality of the women wearing them and how they felt that particular day. Obviously the weather affects the outfit choice also.

The lioness, sexual, powerful confident, but approachable, down to earth but wild, her outfit is very much about reflecting who she is and how she feels about herself.

Again we can see she is confident, has real attitude, very unapproachable - she really knows her worth. Fashion is very important along with the right look, from brands to make up and hair she is what most men desire and most women aspire to be.  

The socialite, trendy street wear, always on the go, always on a call. Fun, sassy, really knows what she wants and how to get it.

Girl next door, cute girly and fun she likes to play, she is sassy but not overly confident, very much fun to chat with and be with.

Outfil fails are a by product of wearing something special or something which is outside your normal range. A very short dress or skirt can leave little to the imagination, similarly a short pair of shorts can expose you in ways you are not aware.

 

Some times a girl just can not win. Sitting with her thighs tightly together, her skirt length is at her knees and yet due to the fabric, her sitting postion and the angle of the camera she is fully exposed. 

 

Women also have to consider fabrics and how female clothing can move and in some cases pinch or ride up, forcing a woman to adjust herself and her clothing.  Sheer leggings, streach tight can become transparent, especially when bending down.

Nip Slips are perhpas the most common outfit fail. Every girl I know has at one point had to deal with erect nipples or a blouse, dress or top that has just opened in such a way that your nipples are on display.