How To Be Good In Bed As a Woman

One of the most often questions I am asked by sissy gurls - how can I be more like a woman in bed? How can I be good in bed, as good as a woman?

If we were being totally honest, the simply answer to the question - how can a sissy gurl be sexier in in bed, how can s/he use femininity to drive her lover wild?  

The answer 

You can't a sissy is a very different creature, but you can try to emulate some of the more submissive and feminine female traits. But before I start to expand on that idea lets just take note for a moment, sex even submissive sissy sex is a two way thing, yes your man or woman will take you in hand, yes they will use you but your role in this is to re-act to perform to encourage and most of all to show your Mistress or Master gratitude to be thankful for bothering with you, to be thankful for the pleasure they have allowed you to expereince. Good we are all on the same page, lets begin.   

What you might find is this post will highlight your inexperience, it will make you feel even more
insecure about your abilities, the good news is as a sissy gurl you do not have to think too hard, simply look cute, smile, be pleasent and full of energy and always be ready to please.
 

Enthusiasm
Nobody wants to fuck a wet fish! Gurls you need to show him you want and enjoy sex. You are interested in the things he wants to try and you are eager to learn if you don’t know. You need to be enthusiastic with your body and words, making it clear to him you are there for it and loving it.
 

Variety
Sometimes being good in bed has nothing to do with having sex. The lead up to sex can be just as good as the actual act. Men like variety and unexpected ways of getting aroused before ever stepping into the bedroom. Don’t wear panties every now and then and let him know it. Sexual texts: they don’t have to be raunchy, a simple “you looked so good this morning” can get him going.
Tell him you want him when out in public where you can’t have sex.
Sensually flash him a part of yourself when he is on the phone or otherwise occupied.
Touch yourself innocently. It is the equivalent of a man ‘adjusting himself’ in his suit for example, and for some reason very hot.

 

Comfortable & Confident
Having the perfect body doesn’t matter, but being comfortable and confidant in your body does. It’s okay to be shy or even nervous, especially if you don’t have a lot of experience, but being confident in your body — not hiding yourself, or trying to cover certain areas, makes him feel comfortable too.

You wouldn’t want a guy who is so insecure about his stomach that it hijacks the entire mood in the bedroom right?

At the end of the day, when a guy is about to have sex, he can’t even see any of your flaws. You are a goddess in the moment, so act like it!

Touch.
Women don’t do enough touching!

If you think all your man wants to feel is his penis inside you, then you are so wrong. Men love when you run your hands through his hair, hold his face, kiss his neck with your lips whispering in his ear. Don’t underestimate the power of such gentle interactions, it’s what elevates you from the infamous “dead starfish” to someone actually involved and using their hands.

Express yourself

First of all, moaning. Who doesn’t love moaning during sex? Here’s what not to do: replicate a porn star by screaming non-stop. You need to express yourself genuinely by moaning when it actually feels good. A constant stream of fake high pitched noise won’t turn him on, so keep it real!

Second of all, talk during sex. Let him know you like what he is doing, how he feels, how you feel etc. There is no need to go overboard with this one either, be genuine.

 

Kissing

Kissing is the first intimate act you engage in, so if it doesn’t rock your world from the get-go, it can be a let down for the rest of the evening (no matter how good you are at other things.)

The way you kiss sets everything up: your sexual tone, ability to arouse and how sex with you might be like.

Kissing tip: 

1. Always match your partner. Think of it as a mimicking game where you want to mirror what he is doing. The best kisses are ones that are on the same wavelength. 

2. Scared you won’t know his wavelength? Let him kiss you first, wait a couple of seconds to see where he takes it, and then proceed to join him.

Best of both worlds

Guys love sex that has even a little bit of oral involved. Whether you start with it, quickly take him in your mouth while switching positions, or end the round with it — sex mixed with oral is the best kind of sex for men. For some reason women view them as two separate acts, you either give oral or have sex right? So it’ll please him if you can combine the two.

Oral tip: Humming can help prevent gag-reflex by relaxing your throat, and always give oral like you love it — you want to apply all those enthusiasm rules here as well!

Put all these suggestions into use and you really can’t go wrong no matter how inexperienced you are and I promise you’ll be rocking a man’s world (and his bed) every single time!