Your first Bra

When 8 out of 10 women are wearing the wrong size bra without even knowing it, how does a sissy gurl stand a chance? How do you know gurls if you are wearing the right size? 

 
Finding the perfect fit is not that easy. Gurls have different types of breasts that need different support. Not just the size of the breasts but also their shape and placing lead to different requirements in the choice of bra. The most important thing to bear in mind is that a bra should provide support but never be uncomfortable or too tight. In principle, there are three areas that you need to focus on when trying a new bra: the cup, the band, and the straps.

No gurls this is not sexy, this is not providing her any support, most importantly as a gurl we don't judge, we smile, blush and support all women and their choices.

The cup should enclose the whole breast. (this is ofcourse bra style dependent, as some cups are not designed to cover the whole breast). 

There are 1000s of bra styles and shapes, oufit choice also impacts your bra selection as does your cup size, generally the larger the breast the more support is required. 

 

The breasts should not spill out of the bra at the sides or in the middle. Double breasts must not form between the cups, nor should the breasts be pushed out towards the armpit. If they are, you have chosen a bra with a cup size that is too small: try a bigger cup size.

The cup must not be too loose either. Bend forward and look in at your bust and check if the cup gapes. If you can see into the cup then the cup is too big for you.

Most women have different size and shape breasts. This can be quite obvious on some women and less on others. If you feel that the right and left cups fit very differently on your bust, always start from the bigger breast and make sure it fills the cup properly. You can always put in a small bra insert to fill out the other cup if you are bothered by the asymmetry, but remember that it is completely natural to have breasts of different shape and size.

If you wear an underwired bra, the wire should support the whole of the underside of the breast and not squeeze the breast anywhere. The wire should also lie completely flat against the body and between the breasts so that the breasts are separated and held up. Its worth noting that larger breasts obviously require more support and this is where underwire bras tend to be the most favoured bra type. It is also worth noting that wires run at different heights, so choose a bra with a lower cut if you think the end of the wire presses uncomfortably between the breasts or by the armpit. You can try different models. The wire should never feel uncomfortable. If it does, you are wearing the wrong type of bra or size.

If you look at your profile in the mirror when wearing a bra, the band around the body should form a straight line, i.e. it should not be pulled up at the back. If it is, you have shortened your shoulder straps too much. It is not unusual to do so to give the breasts a little extra lift or boost, but this will lead to discomfort in the long run as the straps will start to rub, leaving sore spots on the shoulder.

Lift is important! When choosing your breastforms make sure you select a size that match your build, this will make finding the right fitting bra much easier. The woman above is stunning but her choice to wear such a sheer dress without a bra clearly impacts the line of her dress, her breasts are a little droopy and their shape is impacted and clearly visible as the dress is so light and sheer.

Smaller, perter breasts work with almost any outfit. As we can see the girl above is also wearing a sheer dress, but her breasts are almost perfect, in terms of shape, lift and position. Gurls you all need to get to know your bras and better understand how to choose them, wear them and style them with your outfit.