How to Make Your Man Sexually Obsessed with You

Every woman, every cross-dresser and sissy gurl needs to be desired. The all want their partner to be completely captivated by them, both emotionally and sexually. If you find that when you are dressed, you feel an attraction to men, this guide will help you explore and enhance your sensuality, making you irresistible to your partner.

With that in mind, let’s dive into some common mistakes that many people make in the bedroom and more importantly, how to correct them.

1. Starfish or Wet Fish Syndrome

Imagine a starfish stuck to a rock, it just lies there, unmoving, arms stretched out with no real engagement. Now, ask yourself honestly: Do I have Starfish Syndrome?

If the answer is yes, it’s time to change things up immediately. Passivity in bed can leave your partner bored and, worse, fantasizing about someone else. Instead of just lying there, take an active role! Show them you desire them just as much as they desire you.

Try these techniques:

• Pull them close, wrapping your arms around their back or shoulders.
• Run your hands over their body, exploring every inch.
• Lick and suck their nipples—yes, men have erogenous zones too!
• Press your body against theirs, creating friction and heat.
• Dig your nails into their skin for a little extra intensity.
• Massage them—their back, shoulders, or even their thighs.
• Tangle your fingers in their hair or gently pull on it.
• Totally submit to your man, show him how much you want him to take you
• Tell your man that his cock is pefect, lick it stroke it.
  

The more engaged you are, the more turned on they will be, and the stronger the connection you’ll build.
 

2. You’re Not Vocal Enough

People have egos. Every. Single. One.

When they’re having sex, they want validation that they’re doing a great job. Even the most confident alpha male or dominant partner craves reassurance. If you’re too quiet, they may start wondering if you’re bored, uncomfortable, or simply not enjoying yourself.

How to fix this:

• Moan and sigh—even soft sounds can let them know you’re into it.
• Purr and gasp as he enters you, a man likes to hear his gurl whimper as he enters her
  
• Give verbal feedback—whisper in their ear what feels good.
• Call out their name or use dirty talk—tell them exactly what you love about what they’re doing.
• React naturally—don’t fake it, but don’t hold back either.

People are highly stimulated by sound, so let your pleasure be known!
 

3. No Blow Jobs or Bad Blow Jobs

The only thing worse than never giving your partner a blow job is giving them a terrible one. If you truly want to drive them wild in the bedroom, you need to learn the art of oral pleasure. A well-executed blow job isn’t just a physical act—it’s an experience that leaves them craving more.

How to Give an Amazing Blow Job 

• Start with Your Hands. A great blow job doesn’t start with your mouth—it begins with anticipation. Slowly slip your hands inside their pants and stroke them gently, teasing them before you even take them into your mouth. Look into his eyes, this will excite him further.
• Whisper in their ear about how big they are. Tell them you’re not sure if you can take them all the way in because they’re just so big. This kind of teasing builds excitement and makes them even more eager and builds confidence. If he is really that big then you are a lucky gurl!
• Don’t Forget About Their Balls. Their testicles are incredibly sensitive and can heighten their pleasure when stimulated correctly. While you’re pleasuring them with your mouth, lightly massage or caress their balls—but be gentle! Too much pressure can ruin the mood fast.
• Start with a Kiss & A Lick. Before taking them fully into your mouth, build anticipation even further by lightly kissing and licking their length. If done correctly, they will literally be twitching with excitement, aching for you to take them deeper.

Great sex isn’t just about technique—it’s about passion, engagement, and making your partner feel desired. By actively participating, being vocal, and mastering the art of pleasure, you’ll not only satisfy your partner but also create a deeper, more electrifying connection that keeps them obsessed with you.