The top 5 aspects of femininity

So many gurls write to me asking, pleading with me to help them get closer to the elusive ideal of femininity. There are sooo may aspects to this question it would take a lifetime to express fully and perhaps that would still not be long enough.

How can I explain what it feels like for a women to go through puberty, to start to discover her own body, society demands, the complex rules surrounding women and how they have to behave. Her first period, her first kiss, her first lover. Planning her wedding the dress, the heels the lingerie. The list is endless.

So rather then try to express womenhood in a single post I have outlined in my opinion the 5 key elements that will help all you sissy gurls better understand aspects of femininity and help you along the journey towards womenhood.

1. Vulnerability 

An emotional aspect shunned by men, but adored by women. It can be exciting, scary, intoxicating and erotic all at the same time. Some women express vulnerability in the way the move, speak, behave and or dress. 

Vulnerability comes in many forms how a women might dress or undress

She can be stunning and sensual yes demur and in this there is a sense of vulnerability

Women's clothing is designed to heighten the control a man has as he undresses her - imagine needing someone to help you zip up your skirt or clip or button your dress. Female clothing is all about exposure and mostly from behind again placing the power in the other individual 

Being designed by nature to be penetrated. This idea is a very difficult subject for most women, especially dom women, we are by nature designed to be penetrated men have taken that beautiful wonderful sensual and fullfiing act and made it something that it is not. It is not a submission, it is not an act of loss - imagine a world were women do not lose their virginity, rather they gain experience. Why is a man with many lovers considered a stud and a women with many lovers a slut, even today we give brides away, we women must wear white and be virginal otherwise we are dirty, less than and even mothers of the groom judge us. Even women judge other women by the patriarchal standard.
As much as I despise this situation, sissy gurls need to understand it fully to bring themselves into the world of women hood. 

Lingerie, some of it is empowering some of it heightens the feeling of vulnerability. Knowing what to wear and when is vital. 

2. Posture, movement and detail

Women are designed to move in very different ways. Hips are a huge part of womenhood more so than breasts, yes breasts are fun but they are easily emulated but to fill out a dress with hips is to create the shape of a women.

Creating the wonderful peach shape, how a women bends over, sits and move is all vital to the illusion of womenhood 

Women allow themselves to be closer, the share personal space and in doing so create deeper and long lasting friendships - most women have had a female friend that they have lusted after and some have slept with, but all in a female friend way, rahter than a sexual way. 

Clothing plays a huge part in how a women moves. 

Touches herself 

Touches her intimate clothing 

Presents herself

3. Details - trappings of womenhood 

From makeup to heels all the little things that are huge in the world of women. Sexy heels are divine and many women will do anything to have that elusive red sole! Perfect nails, white teeth, hair styled perfectly matching makeup that brings out your eyes 

Knowing how to be sensual and enjoy luxury a real female trait 

Lace and frills 

Pearls, diamonds. It is no accident that the more attractive women have the bigger diamonds - this is a male society and value and worth is based on male standards - so sissy lose weight, take care of yourself, sleep, have a beauty regime

 4.Playfulness 

Women can be playful in ways men simply cant grasp, a guy in bed is serious he has work to do, he has to conquer the women make her orgasm, penetrate her - a women wants to have fun, she wants to play, she needs that connection it means so much more

Dressing is one way a women can show she cares, playing a role

Games and fetishes are always fun 

Dancing, and feeling alive, vibrant

5. Exposure

Women have been told to shave, buff and preen themselves to a high gloss finish all their lives. So that they can feel confident when they expose themselves for men - do I really need to say anything further - well sissy you better get waxing!