Women do not discuss performance, they discuss how they felt

Perhaps the biggest failling of any sissy gurl is her/his issues with performance. Perhaps the male ego understands that as a man the sissy can not please his partner and rather than submit as a man, submits as a sissy? However this again is the male subconsious ego asserting itself. Could this be the difference between a sissy gurl and cross dresser?

Think about the language men and women use.

Man = was that good, he is asking about his own performance, his own ability, his need to know he has mastered his mate. Ofcourse every single women in the world when asked, knows exactly what to say, yes lover, you are amazing, I never had anyone so big, you taste amazing. So wet for you and so on. For a man it is all about being in charge, taking control, making his mate submit to his abilities. It is all about the act of fucking for men. They want to dominate. 

Woman = How do you feel, are you happy? The question and sentiment is all about the other person, it does not require a value to be assigned to the activity (like the Man's question - he wants a rating). A woman simply wants to know if her partner male or female is happy. For women it is all about the time spent after the act, a sense of intimacy, sharing and enjoying the feelings together.

Even when a women is performing a submissive sexual act her thoughts are about the pleasure she is providing along with the pleasure she is feeling she looks for confirmation from her partner that all is well and they are both safe. She is not judging the act, nor is she thinking how powerful is my man, her thoughts are how much she is attracted to him and how desperate she is to be with him, enjoy him and have him want and enjoy her.

Women within close relationships do not compete (yes they do compete and can be horrid to each other when outside of the relationship dynamic) but inside the protection of the relationship women care about each other. The wife in this image is truly enjoying the joy on her sissy husbands face as he takes his first cock. We can see she is excited, but she is also in love her male lover and her sissy cuck husband's pleasure and the enjoyment of wach other is all she is interested in. This is why a woman's orgasm is so much more than a man's. Her orgasm is every single moment, every cuddle, every kiss and every moment of passion, fills a women when she cums. A man only cares for that moment, his need is to cum in her and please himself.

When two female friends meet they congratulate each other for finding a partner and ask not for sexual details, but rather relationship details. Is everything ok? Does he make you happy? Do you care for him, does he care for you and so on. The aspect sissy gurls miss is in the moment, in the question - does he make you happy, female friends are asking so much more.

They are asking, if the female friend is ok, is she safe, does she feel wonderful, is she getting serviced, does he do anything you might tell me about, does he make you squeal with passion. Do you enjoy him, his cock. Are you thinking or marriying him? Does the relationship past your tests, will he look after you.

All of this compressed into does he make you happy?

A female friend knows the response oh yes, yes he does. Followed by a giggle or smile and a gentle blushing and perhaps the bitting of the lower lip indicates her friend is indeed being serviced well and and that everything is amazing.

A few drinks later the girls might indulge in a little lewd conversation...

Cock size, and how much he filled me I felt like I was split in half... The drinks continue to flow and the girls continue to add layers of detail.

They touch upon his kinks, what he made me do. The time you were at the gym with the new personal coach and how she was sooo cute you both got high and you watched her suck him off. 

Or the threesome you had a university. Women want sex just as much as men.

Women are just a little more grown up about it.