FINAL UPDATE - If you could choose the real you which woman would you choose?
Much has been written about sissy gurls and their desires, to be a maid, a housewife or a cute girl next door. Lets find out which woman a gurl will choose to be.
A quick update on the numbers for this survey:
In 3rd place
We have the trophy wife
Joint 2nd place
We have the cute housewife and the promiscuous daughter
Joint 1st place
We have the slut and the secretary
Survey closes this week, hurry along gurls or you will miss out
FINAL UPDATE - poll remains open but with over 400 respondents we can clearly gauge the sissy mindset. And what a mindset gurls. Are we surprised by the results? Not really, what does it tell us all? Put simply sex and the sissy are so closely woven that we have to accept that all sissy gurls are really only interested in 3 things! Sex, Dressing up & Cock!
In 3rd place we have
The cute housewife - 9.2%
In 2nd place we have
The secretary - 10.8%
In first place we have
The Slut - 11.9%
i d be 100% the cute housewife. Because, preparing the meal, washing the dishes, looking after the baby feels me very feminine. I have a very submissive soul. I ve been never interrsted in making money etc. i love to be under strong male wings making the house better for my husband. I d be a good mom too. So yrs, i am a housewife 100%
ReplyDeleteReading this list was quite thrilling and filled this sissy mind with all sorts of fantasies of womanhood. The idea of finding myself in the heels of any of these women was a total delight, and with each option read from the list, my tummy filled with butterflies and my heart leapt to dreams of how wonderful and what an honor it would be to fulfill any of these roles.
ReplyDeletePicking just one? How could I?? They each seemed so excited. I tried to narrow down the list a bit.
I have to say that “the fashion blogger” totally called to me. How fun to experiment with different outfits everyday, to learn every last detail of the perfect look, to stay on top of the latest trends, and to document it everyday for others to see seemed super fun. I loved the idea of taking care in my look, being expected to know exactly how to put together an outfit, to fill my head with YouTube videos about fun fashion hacks and new makeup tricks. And all the while, to channel being feminine, and pretty in a stylish and artistic way.
I have to admit though, reading “the slut” also took my breath away for a moment. How jealous I am of all the fun adventures women get to experience, the gossiping about different people and encounters, knowing just how to flash the right look or wear the right skit to get the attention of a crush. More than anything, I think what I envied is the feeling of confidence in bed, the thrill of knowing just how to please and delight a partner, and keep them coming back for more.
But “the maid” also touched something deep in me, and aroused my submissive instincts. Being taught a specific role and place, given the limited narrow task of pleasing my employers though cleaning and looking sexy while doing it - while not being the most glamorous role, did resonate with me. Giving up control, letting go of my other ambitions, and just focusing on service seemed to be a simple and rewarding life, if challenging.
Of course my girly mind went especially crazy over the fantasy of being “the model” - the idea of cultivating the sexiest body, working everyday to have the perfect figure, learning how to pose my body and develop a potent “blue steel” gaze, seemed especially glamorous. And how better to be at the pinnacle of femininity, and to be admired by others for it. It would no doubt be a lot of work, but invite me to work on my femininity every day in all aspects of life.
Finally, a part of me was also drawn to being “the pet girl”, an obedient plaything for a powerful owner. The idea of focusing my world on another, learning to please and delight them, to give up other responsibilities and just exist as their sexy plaything also seemed to be an exciting feminine fate.
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ReplyDeleteWith all these options, how’s a girl to pick just one? I thought more about it. While I’m still coming to understand myself and my desires, I know that sissies often have unrealistic fantasies about what it means to be a woman. And looking at this, I felt a pang of guilt for having channeled so much of that into how I read each option. Of course each role represented a kind of feminine caricature, and it was easy to expand that without grounding it. And as someone still learning femininity and womanhood, I realized I needed a more grounded set of goals.
While these fantasies could be powerful and motivating, I knew I needed to focus more closely on what I could reasonably accomplish and where I might actually serve others in my acceptance of womanhood, rather than jumping directly to the most exciting dreams. But exploring each of these options, I also realized what resonated in me about them could also serve me as I sought to be a useful sissy.
Ultimately, I realize the right choice for me is “the secretary”. While this option didn't leap off the page in the same way as the others, as a secretary, I could help powerful women around me better accomplish their goals, learn service, while also perfecting my femininity. I realized that each of the roles that spoke to me could also be channeled to serve me in my journey as a secretary.
Like "the fashion blogger", a talented and valued secretary knows how to dress sharply and always looks her best. She knows that it isn’t just her work that is valued to her employer, but also her appearance, and that an attention to detail every day in how she presents is a reflection of how seriously she takes her job and is a sign of respect to her employer. While a secretary’s primary function isn’t to look fashionable, she should nevertheless spend every morning doing her best to be pleasing to the eye when she walks into the office.
While not specifically hired for her sexual services, like “the slut”, a successful secretary needs to know how to please and delight, how to anticipate each of her employers needs. Her service may also occasionally need to go beyond the formal limits of office work, and having an array of sexual skills will ensure she’s ready for any situation at the office.
Much like “the maid”, the secretary also has to learn acceptance of a certain place and role in society. She must learn to let go of her ego and any remaining (male) pride, and accept that her service is one merely of support, that success in the role often means not being seen or noticed at all, that learning her employers needs means anticipating them before they manifest, and also that no job is below her. Ultimately, a successful secretary understands that her job description is simply to make her employer's life easier, to do whatever is needed, without any fuss or drama, even if that means being the recipient of her employers anger or frustration.
And like “the model”, a talented secretary must not just dress the part, but she must maintain her body to also always be to the pleasure of her employers. Just because you aren’t on magazine covers doesn’t mean a valued secretary isn’t expected to watch her weight and find the space amid her limited free time to workout and eat healthily. She also must know how to present the right demure look, to communicate her position by her gaze, and ensure her movements are always graceful and feminine.
Finally, like “the pet”, a good secretary must also learn complete obedience, while remaining a pleasant presence, perhaps at times even decoration, around the office. She’ll be easy to mold and train, and eager to please her employers, perhaps even finding ways to provide amusement on slower days at the office.