All is fair in love and being married to a sissy gurl

So your wife or partner has accepted your need to dress. You are one of the lucky few, you have a unique opportunity to expereince womenhood and all things femm.

As a gurl to know that your wife supports you and loves you despite your need to be femm is such a special and wonderful gift, your wife or partner is not only gifting you acceptance and kindness but she is also opening the door to those magical and wonderful feelings of feminity. From choosing perfumes, to selecting outfits to swooning over the latest lingerie set you purchased that weekend and lusting after the perfect heels. Or that to-die-for handbag. 

Whether you are convincing and can pass as a woman or not. You are one of the lucky few your wife or partner has given you one of the most precious gifts - freedom, to explore yourself, to understand yourself to be the true you. How many people can say that, can actually truly explore themselves?

Imagine being able to freely discuss fashion, make up, flick through magazines togther, be open and discuss feelings (although sissy gurls can be a little overwhelming when discussing feelings and their needs, remember your wife is growing to know you so treat her as a freind and share your feelings as your friendship grows) relationships, imagine not hiding these feelings, being able to be you with your wife.

You might find your wife or partner doesnt want to engage with your femm self in this way. Some wives have told me they dont mind the dressing but they dont want to be involved.

They want their husbands to feel safe and to explore their gurl inside but not be overly involved. Time helps, give your wife the space to get used to the idea, to feel a little more comfortable with the idea. I have suggested this several times to couples, if the sissy takes on the chores the wife will soften far more quickly. 

Yes I know it is such a huge cliche, but it works. Pause a moment and think how much your wife does at home and how much of it you take for granted. Trust me gurls, after a month of cleaning, washing, cooking without a thank you or kind word you will feel frustrated and undervalued, and that is just after a single month, imagine your poor partner or wife, she has been picking up and cleaning after you for years. Take a moment and just think about that.

As you begin to understand yourself and explore what it means to be a women, you will find your need to be more and more submissive grow, your eagerness to please not only your wife but also in wider life, you will automatically, without thinking or understanding why or how it happened start to let others take the lead in your life. Even with strangers you will find yourself in a much more submissive role. Simple things like queing at a check out you will let other woman jump in front of you, especially the more attractive women and the more alpha the male the more naturally submissive you will become. 

As this behaviour becomes your new normal, it is vital to be open and more hoest with your wife. Sharing how you feel, your thoughts, your desires are critical. Trust is important. As you begin to truly become your femm self you will find you begin to take notice of your body more, you adopt a skin and hair care routine and you spend far more time on yourself. 

 

At this point your need to be more and more femm and more and more passable becomes a real desire, expensive wigs, breastforms, treatment for hair removal and a level of make-up knowledge to rival most women. You will begun to develop your own style, your own look, you will build up a detailed understanding of female clothing how it fits, what size you are and what brands work best for your body and personality.

I tell all my gurls that they need to consider several aspects when selecting an outfit and to constantly look for inspiration, I recommend every gurl starting a pintrest board and creating several boards that help to define her style. Every gurl should immerse herself in fashion, you should know your LaPerla from your Mui Mui and your Vera Wang from your Gucci. 

As a side note as a gurl I would strongly suggest every gurl takes note and puts this in place:

• Spend a day looking at clothes—but don’t buy anything yet 
• Try on as many different brands and styles
• Look, really look at women and what they are wearing and how
• Use Pinterest as a mood board
• Step outside of your comfort zone
• Evaluate the clothes you wear on a daily basis
• Mimic the looks of people whose fashion you adore
• Keep a clothing rack of pieces you want to style
• Utilise the three-word method

As you begin to actually build the real you, as you start to understand your femm persona and feel like you could actually be a girl, you will begin to want more, to understand more about being a girl, how you move, how your body reacts to your movements, little things like tucking your hair behind your ear or putting your up so you can work.

You really begin to focus on your movements, subtle positioning of your hands, how you walk in heels, your posture, you love love love how your breast forms bounce as you strut around your bedroom giggling, you begin to use make-up daily and have press on nails to add glamour and feminity to your hands and you love the fact it makes cleaning a little harder, you also love the noise your nails make on your keyboard, while gossiping with other gurls online.

Your femm wardrobe has increased in size, several dresses, tops and skirts and sooo many bras and knickers, bodies and corsets, so much so your wife allows your femm self to have space in the closet and chest of drawers. Dressing is a huge part of your life now.

One unexpected thrill which you find turns you on sooo much is when your wife asks to borrow a skirt. You almost swoon knowing that she really does accept you and your truest self and likes and wants to borrow your clothes.

At this point your wife is far more comfortable with your dressing and is now chatting about her own feelings openly, your conversations grow and you begin to understand and know your wife or partner more and more as she opens up about her past lovers, her expereinces what she likes and dislikes.

Sex becomes a submissve act for you, in fact your always dressed as your femm self when you have sex with your wife or partner. She is now in complete control and you love it sooo much.

You spend most of your time between her thighs, your ability to bring your her to orgasm is incredible and your wife is really enjoying her control. 

It really is only a matter of time as your wife's control in the bedroom spills over into other aspects of your lives. You find yourself on your knees rather a lot.  

Even when in male mode and you are out shopping with your wife you will find yourself slipping into your femm self. Shopping and in particular clothes shopping can be intoxicating, your wife might even buy you lingerie. It can be sooo exciting to experience that.  

Just imagine discussing the material, the fit and the colour with your wife as she picks up bra after bra and knickers and holds up the item to you.

As your wife becomes more and more connected to your femm side you will find her becoming playful and she will begin to play with your breast forms she will start to explore you in a new frame of mind, she will start to see you as a gurl.

This will become more and more how your wife will see you once she has pegged you at that stage your position as a man will be gone and your wife will see you as a gurl - this will create a deeper need in your mind to expereince more and more aspects of womenhood and a need to reach out to others

While your connection with your wife continues to grow you find that your need to connect to other gurls continues to grow. You find yourself spending more and more time in chat rooms and on video chat with other gurls. And then it happens...

Your wife catches you playing with one of your gurlfriends online. You blush and quickly close your laptop and your wife storms downstairs. An hour or so later your find yourself sitting in the kitchen with your wife explaining your actions, your feelings and desires. Your wife listens and then tells you how adorable your outfit is and how cute you look.

You blush and then your wife asks you to show her your gurlfriends, you blush as you open your laptop and share the first gurl in your BFF circle. 

This is Cathy she is sooo stunning and has started to transition, she is dating a guy and she loves to share her clips with us. She is such a slut as all she can talk about is cock. You blush and giggle as you continue to tell your wife all about your gurlfriends.

This is Kylie and her wife Susan. Kylie is sooo cute and sooo passable and I have spoken with both of them Susan is sooo wonderful and loves sharing. I am very close with Kylie I think she and I are best friends. We are very similar and have a lot in common.

You flick through image after image and your wife giggles and tells you that you have a huge gurl crush on Kylie, you blush and giggle and say that you would soooo love to spend an evening out with her. Now it is the turn of your wife to blush as she asks would you and Kylie be on a date or looking for dates? You blush and bite your lower lip....and almost whisper, Kylie and I have discussed going out to look for guys. Your wife already knew the answer but somehow hearing you say it somehow shocks her and she tells you to go on and tell her everything... you pause and stay silent knowing that if you say anymore you will tell her everything...

Your wife starts to touch you and tells you to continue, she strokes your breast forms and places her hand on your knees and tells you please babe tell me...

You look at your stocking covered knees and blush crimson, you feel all eyes are on you. You tell your wife it is not real and it is a fatansy and you know Kylie lives in London somewhere....and you blush and your lip wobbles as you begin cry. Your wife startles you as she tells you to stop crying bitch and tell me what you have discussed with your slutty gurlfriend. You blush again and start to tell your wife that you and Kylie would meet guys at a club and then bring them back to Kylie's place as her wife travels so much. You then begin to tell your wife all about the conversations yourself and Kylie have had, all about the blow jobs you are both going to give the guys your pick up. The shock you expressed when you first see your gurlfriend licking a real mans cock. 

You tell your wife about your desire to have a huge cock to see a real cock to hold one and feel its heat the power...

Your wife blushes and tells you I love huge cocks too. I love the feeling of it sliding in and splitting me it just soooo yummy. Your wife's eye glaze over and she begins to tell you all about the one guy that had the largest cock she ever had.

You listen to your wife and feel yourself getting excited your wife continues to tell you how she was manhandled, how she was taken, how he did not care about making love, your eyes widen as you hear your wife say these words in almost a moan... He just fucked me, you got to understand hun, he entered me soo deeply it was so intense I would have done anything for him, shamed myself just to have more of him inside me. Honestly babe when a real man takes you it is like nothing else. I bite my lip and look at my wife and she blushes and tells me to carry on.

Well the last gurl is much like me she has just told her wife and her wife helps with makeup. Her name is Lucy and she is such a sweetheart.

I dont know if this is Lucy's imagination or this happend but Lucy and her wife would visit gay and trans bars and Lucy's wife would offer Lucy to any guy. The first time it happend Lucy said she was so scared and so excited, the guy was so sweet and she went into a cubicle so that her wife would not see her. She loved her hair being pulled and was shocked at the taste.

Lucy said she now does this often and does not care if her wife watches, in fact she prefers it.
One particular evening Lucy said she had seven guys cum in her mouth.

What do you want to do hun, the question shocks you a little, and you ask your wife what does she mean. She smiles and asks you directly do you want to suck cock babe... Tell me hun...

 
Yes... I want to be sucking a man and have you walk in, I dont know why, I am so ashamed but I want it soooo much. I want you to walk in and compliment me, talk to me like a slut and then join in.

I will leave you with a last thought gurls. If you are indeed one of the lucky few, you have a responsibility to other gurls who are not as lucky as you to explore your femm side fully.