What to do if your sissy gurl does not like swallowing

Let’s be honest, girls: we’ve had a lifetime to get used to the idea, the taste, and the experience. I have to admit, I’ve encountered the full spectrum—very bitter, very salty, some guys who were just okay, and, yes, a few occasions where the experience was surprisingly pleasant. It’s taken time, practice, and a bit of mental adjustment to reach a place where I can appreciate the moment, but that’s part of the journey. As women we know what it is really like, your jaw hurts, your throat can be sore, he can smell, he can also taste funky and his cum can be awful. Lets not mention how sore your knees get, or god forbid his cum stains your dress. There is a huge amount to process.

Now, imagine your sweet sissy gurl, stepping into this world for the very first time. She’s new, eager to please, and trying her best to embrace this side of her femininity. But let’s be real—her first time might not be the glamorous fantasy she envisioned. What if it leaves her feeling a bit overwhelmed, even nauseous? It’s a delicate moment that needs understanding and care and a little bit of a push. 

Remind her that every girl has her favorites and not-so-favorites. Salty? Bitter? Maybe a little mix of both? It’s all about discovering what works for you. Pro tip: A sweet treat afterward makes everything better—because nothing says “reward” like chocolate.

Helping your sissy gurl ease into it

💖 Set the Scene
Make her first time special by creating a relaxed and safe environment. Soft lighting, calming music, and a comfortable setting can make all the difference. Remind her that she is not in control and that she has to try to please the man, that this is about his pleasure.

💖 Prep and Hydrate
A little preparation goes a long way! Encourage her to stay hydrated beforehand and have a flavored beverage or candy nearby to help ease any lingering taste afterward. Fruity or minty flavors can be a lifesaver.

💖 Take It Slow
It’s her first time, so patience is key. Guide her gently and let her set the pace. If she feels nervous or unsure, reassure her that it’s perfectly normal and that she doesn’t need to rush.

💖 Adjust the Mindset
Help her reframe the experience in a positive way. It’s not just about the physical act—it’s about connection, intimacy, and exploring her sissy identity. Remind her that it’s okay if she doesn’t enjoy it right away. These things take time.

It may also help to explain why women submit to the act so readily. For many women, there’s a sense of satisfaction in giving pleasure to their partner, especially when they see or hear his reactions. Moans, sighs, or physical responses can boost confidence and create a sense of pride and submission, it also is a lead to penetrative sex and when he has a magnificent cock why would you say no?

💖 Focus on Fun
Make it lighthearted and fun! Laugh together, be playful, and remind her that this is an adventure. If she’s feeling unsure, humor can break the tension and make the moment less intimidating. Share your first time and encourage her to be honest and open.

💖 Celebrate Progress
Whether she takes a small step or dives right in, celebrate her effort. Building confidence takes time, and every little victory counts. Encourage her to share how she feels and let her know she’s doing wonderfully. If your gurl is really making progress, you may want to invite her to a Bull Party. These are fun gatherings at girlfriends homes, we rotate each month and the host invites her Bull along and he is sucked off (such an unpleasent term but soooo apt, giggle) by all the women and gurls present. 

Remember, the key is to approach the moment with patience, understanding, and a touch of sparkle. Every sissy girl’s journey is unique, and with the right support, she’ll find her own rhythm and confidence in no time! 💋✨

So for the gurls that are not even close to performing their first blowjob lets discuss what it feels like. The experience can be deeply varied and influenced by feelings, emotional connection, physical sensations, and the context of the moment. Every woman’s experience is unique, and the way she feels depends on factors such as her level of comfort, trust, attraction, mood, and personal preferences.

Physical SensationsTaste and Texture:
She may notice the taste and texture of the man’s skin, which can vary from neutral to salty or musky depending on hygiene, diet, and body chemistry. Seminal fluid itself has a unique taste, which can range from bitter or salty to slightly sweet, influenced by diet and hydration.
 

Tactile Feedback:
The sensation of the man's skin in her mouth is typically smooth yet firm. She might feel the warmth of his body, the pulse of blood flow, or the movement as he reacts to her actions.
 

Effort and Coordination:
It can require a mix of gentle suction, tongue movement, and jaw control, which might cause slight strain if maintained for long periods. Breathing through the nose while keeping a rhythm can take practice, especially if deep-throating is involve. I have had many sore throats from deep throating you need to practice and learn to control your gag reflex.
 

Pleasure and Empowerment:
For many women, there’s a sense of satisfaction in giving pleasure to their partner, especially when they see or hear his reactions. Moans, sighs, or physical responses can boost confidence and create a sense of connection.
 

Vulnerability and Trust:
The act involves an intimate vulnerability—she's engaging in a deeply personal act that requires trust in her partner's respect and care.

Enjoyment or Discomfort:
Some women genuinely enjoy the act, finding it arousing or gratifying, while others may feel neutral or occasionally discomforted, depending on their preferences, mood, or the partner involved.
 

Focus and Intimacy:
The act can require a level of focus and mindfulness. A woman might feel deeply connected to her partner, appreciating his physical reactions and feeling closer emotionally.
 

Role Dynamics:
Depending on the relationship and situation, she might experience feelings of being dominated and controlled or submission (enjoying the act of giving and serving).
 

Personal Preferences:
If she enjoys her partner’s body and feels appreciated, the act can enhance her overall sexual satisfaction. Conversely, if she feels obligated or unappreciated, it may become an unpleasant or purely mechanical experience.
 

Connection with the Partner:
A strong emotional connection or physical attraction can heighten the experience, making it more enjoyable and meaningful.

Environment and Mood:
A relaxed, comfortable environment can enhance the experience. Conversely, feeling rushed, pressured, or uncomfortable can negatively affect her feelings. However it can also heighten the experience.  

Many women describe the act as intimate and sensual, finding joy in exploring their partner's pleasure and connecting deeply. The sounds, movements, and reactions from their partner can be arousing, adding to their own sexual excitement.